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Energy Dynamics

A high degree of engagement coupled with a passion that could be stated as “killer instinct” is a sure determiner of success in any venture. Energy could be either catabolic or anabolic. Most often, individuals operate from a default perspective which implies they usually don’t think much before reacting. But at other times, our responses flow out of a carefully thought out pattern.

This understanding is extremely crucial in the business world. Where stakes are high and individuals need to have a high degree of clarity and in-depth understanding of the situation. Our responses are usually governed by how we perceive the situation and how we perceive ourselves in that scenario. When we look at the “crème de la crème” of any organization, there are a few factors like “alignment with the Company’s goals, a strong sense of commitment, vision and resiliency that stand out. They prove invaluable as an individual move up the ladder. This, in turn, leads to an individual being extremely creative and alert.

Of course, minimizing distractions and getting regular feedback helps. But, an individual must be engaged and receptive to growth.

But the vast majority of individuals just burn out due to the constant pressure. So is training the mind a prerequisite? Yes. But, it’s also important to gradually develop a taste for the difficult. And eventually, the adrenaline rush is a welcome visitor.

For example, an employee who feels valued at a firm and has a say in decision making will continue to stay and deliver quality results. Employee engagement teams at top companies can vouch for the above. A high degree of engagement leads to a high degree of commitment. It’s also important to address the physical aspect. Adequate rest, sexual interactions and nutrition play a huge role in energy dynamics. Any miss on the above has severe repercussions ranging from personality disorders to work-related stress. Physical stress occurs when the body is being forced to operate at peak efficiency at a stretch. Most of the time, individuals refuse to listen to their bodies and ignore the signals. And in most cases, it even leads to death.

A strong social network where an individual feels appreciated has a great impact. The ability to influence others and see a smile on people’s faces is a great confidence booster. Then, there are environmental factors like the country, culture, and weather all play a major role in enhancing engagement. Most companies invest heavily in employee relations. But, in order to get the complete picture, one must keep all the above factors in mind before forming an opinion.

Core energy coaching connects an individual’s passion for goals in order to achieve lasting success. It applies theories from Neuro-linguistic programming, quantum physics, philosophical studies, etc. It enables the clients to break any preconceived ideas and learn a new way to approach life situations. The coaching methodology creates a plan of action that is systematic and achievable. Super Soul Sunday is a popular series conducted by Oprah Winfrey, the acclaimed talk show host. In one of the sessions, she asked one of the guests this burning question, “How do I know I am on the right path?” The person, another acclaimed writer, answered thus,” When my potential is fully utilized and I feel that I am not betraying myself.” That’s insightful.

That’s lasting success and it leads to a high degree of engagement that simply becomes better with time. The individual is driven by a strong value system and work ethic. This is the kind of energy dynamics that is a natural outcome and is sustainable over a period of time. Energy coaching mechanisms are a great tool, but the individual must be highly motivated.

Highly energetic individuals build great economies. China is a great example of a highly skilled workforce. They have no rival in the arena of technology. But let’s establish the objective, “Have a grand vision, love what you do.” You might be the next Steve Jobs   !!!

Inner Peace Life Coaching has precision tools to assess your energy levels and how you react under stress. These assessments coupled with Coaching can assist you to find ways to move to higher energy levels and maintain there for high performance in different areas of your life. Check out this link for further information.

http://innerpeacelife.com/energy-leadership-index-assessment/

Sajid Ahamed is a “Certified trainer of NLP” and Founder of Inner Peace Life Coaching Pvt Ltd, India. He organizes Grinder approved training in India and the Middle East. He is a firm believer in high performance. He enjoys engaging in powerful conversations that lead to effective learning and results. He conducts NLP Practitioner and New Code NLP training in India and the Middle East. He is one of the few who are authorized by ITA (International Training Academy) to conduct New Code NLP Certifications in India and the Middle East. Being Certified in Energy Leadership Index Assessment by one of the largest ICF-accredited coach training schools in the world, “Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching” (iPEC). He is also certified and authorized to conduct Emotional intelligence Assessments by Six Seconds. Sajid empowers his clients to achieve their greatest potential and evolve into their personal best version through emotional intelligence coaching.

If you are interested to find out more about this technique, You can book a free session with him using the below link.

https://my.timetrade.com/book/LNX16

IPLC Team

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Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the number one skill that almost every successful individual possesses. But, is it hard to master? Is it a byproduct of good genes or just a good upbringing? The simplest definition of EQ is “the ability to sustain the pace.” Talent and good luck can place an individual at a strategic career-defining moment, but its only emotional intelligence that can keep him there. It’s quite simply the art of reading a situation or environment and effectively understanding one’s role in that dynamic.emotional intelligence

And believe it or not, “it’s easier said than done”. Emotional intelligence is a trait that’s earned over a period of time. It involves soul-crushing and sometimes debilitating emotional upheavals. It involves going through the entire “rigmarole” of events only to realize that it was an utter waste of time. Not everyone possesses it, and those who do can vouch for the fact that their lives are cumulatively better.

A large chunk depends on an individual’s formative years. But, there are always exceptions to the rule. To assume that emotional intelligence is only seen in individuals belonging to affluent families or perfect homes is a fallacy. Sometimes, emotional intelligence is a byproduct of great adversity. History is replete with examples of individuals who exhibited great resilience despite the circumstances. The large majority of individuals operate in terms of “trial and error.” There is no “intelligent” decision making. And, at other times, people prefer to stay in their comfort zones and hope that everything will fall into place. Well, it doesn’t!

“Know thyself” was a thought promoted by a great philosopher. Know what are your key drivers, your motivation to stay “put”, your unique identity? That’s the seat of your true power. An attempt to understand another individual or a situation can never truly be successful without attempting to understand oneself. Most individuals do it the other way round and fail time after time. How you perceive yourself has a great impact on how others treat you. And it also might be added that “a renewed understanding “ of self is the foundation for great interpersonal relationships and careers. It can’t happen any other way.

Emotional intelligence enables an individual to say “no” without feeling like a failure. I have witnessed a number of individuals who are extremely hard on themselves, and on a relentless drive to appear “competent” for the next position. Simply put, EQ is strategic and focused. It’s working smarter. Let me give an example. Extremely successful Hollywood stars have their names engraved on Hollywood Boulevard. Does that make them better than the rest? Of course, their net worth has skyrocketed. Did they happen to get there by accident? The answer is a resounding “No”. To come back to the earlier question, “Are they better than the rest?’ Not necessarily. They exhibited a high degree of emotional intelligence and success literally chased them.emotional intelligence

High achievers are expert navigators in terms of emotions. They have a firm check on them. It doesn’t imply that they don’t feel. It’s just that they know when to break down and bounce back. Emotions make us “human”. We were not designed to work on “autopilot”. The real danger is when an individual drowns himself in a flurry of activity to mask real emotions. Too many people are just dealing with life. They are not facing it “head-on .” Handling stress effectively is a key determiner of an emotionally intelligent individual. The more proficient he /she is in dealing with sudden unexpected situations, the more successful he is. This is also a major reason for relationship disasters because two individuals couldn’t handle a stressful situation intelligently. It doesn’t take long to blow up years of hard work in smoke over a minor incident. Many individuals have fallen victim to heated arguments and ineffective conflict resolution.

Take an emotional intelligence test. Test the waters. Your education can only take you so far. It’s your ability to navigate complex situations and individuals that will determine how successful you become. Score an A-plus on life. Not just on a test. Life is a complex potpourri of events. What worked in the past is most definitely not going to work in the future. Innovate, think, adapt. In other words, do whatever it takes to build that emotional tenacity and bandwidth. You won’t regret it!! And yes, before I go, remember,” It’s a daily battle that will demand new levels of reasoning. Are you up to the challenge?

Sajid Ahamed is “Certified trainer of NLP” and Founder of Inner Peace Life Coaching Pvt Ltd, India. He is a firm believer in high performance. He enjoys engaging in powerful conversations that lead to effective learning and results. He is ITA (International Training Academy) approved NLP and New Code Trainer in India and the Middle East. Certified in Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner by one of the largest ICF-accredited coach training schools in the world, “Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching” (iPEC), Coach Sajid empowers his clients to achieve their greatest potential and evolve into their personal best version.

Watch this testimonial on fast phobia cure

If you are interested to find out more about this technique, You can book a free session with him using the below link.

https://my.timetrade.com/book/LNX16

IPLC Team

The Confidence Matrix

“To be yourself in a World that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson quoted this centuries earlier, and yet this statement has the same potent appeal it had years earlier.

Confidence is not an option anymore. It’s a necessity and non negotiable. Cultivated meticulously, it has the potential to make an individual unstoppable. Confidence is that rugged fierce characteristic that says,”Either I will find a way or make one.”

Neuro Linguistic Programming has a couple of confidence building techniques that definitely make the journey towards self-esteem easier.

The NLP Whiteout Technique as the name suggests is really equivalent to a whiteout. The purpose is to eliminate all sorts of negative experiences or memories that barge into a person’s consciousness and prevent peak performance. Its programming your brain to think of the negative memory in all its intensity and then radically think of something else. Repeated rigorously, the result is equivalent to a wipe out of the negative trail of emotions.

The NLP Anchoring Technique is a living a memory of resourcefulness and wiring the neurology to that state by some sort of kinesthetic stimulus. Anchoring is a fundamental technique used in NLP using different input channels. You can get anchored to some event in the past where you had high Confidence state. The same technique can be utilized to collapse any negative anchor or memories that trigger low confidence.

The NLP Fast Phobia Technique is truly top-notch. I am surprised more people haven’t tried it. For example, if an individual is afraid of flying and absolutely dreads setting foot on an aircraft, and the memory itself is enough to drive him berserk. Self beliefs strengthen existing fears and phobias. We evaluate experiences and life events through the filter of our beliefs and experience. A Phobia is an irrational fear. The Phobia Cure detaches the dreadful images which twined with extreme emotions in such a way that memory exists but without triggering any emotions.

Content Re-Framing is another powerful tool which enables an individual to perceive a situation in the best possible light. As discussed earlier, preconceived ideas and beliefs play a huge role in assessing a potential situation.

The Dissociation Technique is practiced by psychologists and healthcare professionals worldwide in order to help an individual recover from a traumatic situation. The individual takes on the role of an impartial observer and processes the emotions. It doesn’t have to happen all at once, or it has the danger of overwhelming an individual so much so that, he would never venture into this territory again. Gradually, one begins to assess the entire gamut of emotions and with the help of a competent healthcare professional is able to replace the negativity and fear with acceptance and growth.

NLP techniques work best when the ground rules are firmly established. Its extremely important to have the right mindset that allows for new models to take root in an individual’s psyche.

The confidence that is easily shaken doesn’t have any lasting value in the world we live in. The power to drive change is the ultimate objective but getting there isn’t easy. It requires some “soul searching”, so to speak and to possess an intellect that is ready to be challenged.

Lets face it. When we talk about global sustainability models, we are looking for mechanisms that will last. The point that I intend to drive home is that, quite possibly, we restrict confidence in a narrow bracket that can be gained through the reading of some self- help books. That works but its definitely more potent when combined with the Powerful NLP techniques as discussed above.

“Believe in Yourself. Have faith in your abilities. Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers, you cannot be successful and happy.”

And a reasonable confidence is the byproduct of the entire kaleidoscope of events that have shaped you. And Besides, its not average, mediocre confidence we are talking about. “Today I will do what others won’t. So tomorrow I can do what others can’t!” That’s the Confidence Matrix.

Sajid Ahamed is “Certified Trainer of NLP” and Founder of Inner Peace Life Coaching Pvt Ltd, India. He is a firm believer in high performance. He enjoys engaging in powerful conversations that lead to effective learning and results. He is ITA (International Training Academy) approved NLP and New Code Trainer in India and Middle East. Certified in Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner by one of the largest ICF-accredited coach training schools in the world, “Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching” (iPEC), Coach Sajid empowers his clients to achieve their greatest potential and evolve into their personal best version.

Watch this testimonial on fast phobia cure –

https://youtu.be/p0ueRkEPdSE

If you are interested to find out more of this technique, You can book a free session with him using the below link –

https://my.timetrade.com/book/LNX16

IPLC Team

The Pursuit of Success

The Pursuit of Success

The path towards the peak is always strewn with roadblocks, real and presumed. The harder the climb, the sweeter the victory.  “Without continual growth and progress, such words as improvement, achievement, and success have no meaning”. Wise words were spoken by Benjamin Franklin, one of the powerhouses of his time. It’s also true that lasing success comes with a price tag that is too expensive, and demands sacrifices and categorical decisions at every turn, and few are willing to venture into such perilous territory.

It’s imperative to stress the importance of clarity. The clarity in purpose is like the beacon, or perhaps like a lighthouse that guides a ship on a stormy night. Many fail here and are left to pick up the fragments of broken dreams. Every individual must have a master plan and effective contingency mechanisms. Deliberate questions like, “ Is my potential being utilized to the fullest? Or What should I try differently this time for greater impact?” Are questions that must be asked again and again. Success is not measured by an individuals’ assets or overall net worth, though they are fine to have. A successful life brims with passion and purpose and is characterized by long-lasting winning relationships. Money doesn’t determine an individual’s success, contrary to popular opinion. Had that been the case, there wouldn’t have been a rise in substance abuse and murders amongst the wealthiest individuals in the world.

Jim Carrey is perhaps one of those rare individuals who visualized success long before they tasted it. That doesn’t discount the importance of hard work. Yet I have read the stories of some of the greatest billionaires of our time and their origins can be traced to humble beginnings. That burning desire, clarity of vision and a firm resolve to beat the odds with a little bit of eccentric out of the box thinking are the trademark characteristics of some of the world’s greatest pioneers.

Many people condemn themselves needlessly and think they have blown it. Case in point. Abraham Lincoln failed in his bid for the United States presidency fifty-two times. But he nailed it eventually. Don’t predict what can or cannot happen. Life has a way of rewarding hard work and undeniable talent.

We shall explore a few blocks/ limiting beliefs that severely deter an individual in his path to progress. The life that we know today is brimming with possibilities and even bigger diversions. No wonder, clarity in purpose which I have spoken about earlier is key. Razor-sharp intent and focus is a driving indicator for lasting success. Your past mistakes are not a predictor of future success. One of the key questions to ask yourself is, “ If I don’t believe in myself who will?” Don’t assume the outcome. It’s quite possible that you might be a victim of bad decision making and your confidence has taken a beating. Starting again is risky. But, staying in the same place is riskier still. Let me elaborate. Life today can be compared to a raging current. You either swim upstream or downstream. And if you don’t swim at all, you don’t have a say in the outcome. It takes sheer persistence to swim upstream. You could very well become your own biggest critic and interpret life negatively. Do it enough and it eventually becomes your default mechanism.

Remember the golden rule for successful living is taking personal accountability for your actions. Regardless of your race, ethnicity, gender, conflicting relationships and a host of other factors, it all boils down to you. Success is a very personal choice. You cannot blame bad genes or lack of resources for failure. The way you see yourself determines everything that happens to you. Win the war in your mind first. Engage with the world at large, for it will aid you in your journey towards fulfillment.

Henry Kissinger sums it up beautifully, “Every success is usually an admission ticket to a new set of decisions.” Ask questions, seek help, view setbacks as a learning opportunity and have a bird’s eye view of the future. Anticipate the future and then create it.

If you are interested to find out how to Map your path to a successful career and redesign your life, I invite you to book a free session with Coach Sajid using the below link.

https://my.timetrade.com/book/LNX16

Sajid Ahamed is a “Certified trainer of NLP” and Founder of Inner Peace Life Coaching Pvt Ltd, India. He organizes Grinder approved training in India and the Middle East. He is a firm believer in high performance. He enjoys engaging in powerful conversations that lead to effective learning and results. He conducts NLP Practitioner and New Code NLP trainings in India and the Middle East. He is one of the few who are authorized by ITA (International Training Academy) to conduct New Code NLP Certifications in India and the Middle East. Being Certified in Energy Leadership Index Assessment by one of the largest ICF-accredited coach training schools in the world, “Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching” (iPEC). He is also certified and authorized to conduct Emotional intelligence Assessments by Six Seconds. Sajid empowers his clients to achieve their greatest potential and evolve into their personal best version through emotional intelligence coaching.

Being among the Top NLP Trainers in India, Sajid’s USP is How to get rid of Phobias, you are invited to check out his next NLP training in Bangalore.

IPLC Team